Sunday, December 19, 2010

Break on through to the other side

Very excited.  After some tumultuous times with my daughters other family, we finally had a sit down talk like respecting adults.  I've been saying for months, years even-since I knew I wasn't going to be with the dad while I was pregnant, that I wanted my daughter to have a relationship with that side of her family.  But they've been treating me like I'm this evil person.  I found out why, my ex's dad had another family-an ex-wife and daughter that he's barely seen.  And I unfortunately got lumped into the "league of evil exes" because of it.
But after yet another screaming match with my ex, I drove over to his parents house, and got into it with his dad. But one thing that my ex did NOT get from his dad-is the power to calm down and have a rational adult conversation.  But after having that with his parents, his mom came in afterward, I can see a light at the end of this tunnel. I'll be very excited when I can start posting more positive things!  Just that 30 minutes with his parents gave me hope for a better time dealing with her dad.

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